Bakit Mahilig ang mga Lalake sa mga Babaeng Malalaki ang Boobs?

MRT. Bus. Jeep. Mall. Classroom. Office. Bar. Kahit saan ka yata pumunta, makakakita ka ng isa o grupo ng mga lalake na matitigilan at mamamangha sa presence ng isang babae (minsan ex-lalake) na may malaking boobs o magandang hugis ng pwet. May mambabastos, may mapapangiti, may mapapatitig, at ang karamihan ay gagamit ng kanilang "pornographic memory" para magamit pag-uwi sa bahay.
May isa akong nakilalang babae na malaki yung boobs, 36C. Naiinis siya kasi lahat ng kausap niyang lalaki hindi maka-maintain ng eye-to-eye contact. Isa na ako dun sa mga lalaking yon. Dati naman kasama ko yung girlfriend ko. Nag-away kami dahil hindi ko namalayan na nasundan ko pala ng tingin yung isang babaeng mala-Jennifer Lopez ang likod. At nang minsang nakasakay ako sa bus at walang maupuan, hindi ko mapigil lingunin nang lingunin ang cleavage nung isang nakaupo.
Dito ako napatigil at napaisip. Manyak ba ako?
Ano nga ba ang dahilan kung bakit mahilig tumingin ang lalaki sa boobs at pwet ng babae? Tsaka bakit halos lahat ng lalaki, hindi lang ako? Bakit madaming nagpapalaki ng boobs para mapansin lang? Bakit prerequisite ang hugis ng katawan para masabi mong maganda talaga ang isang babae?
Sa paghahanap ng mga kasagutan sa mga tanong na ito, sinubukan kong mag-search sa Google. Maniwala kayo sa akin, mahirap maghanap ng kasagutan sa tanong na "Why men love looking at big breasts" sa internet. Hindi kasagutan ang ibibigay sa yo kundi mga links sa porn sites. Buti na lang may kakilala ako na nagsabi sa kin na tumingin sa "evolutionary psychology". Evolution as in Darwin, Psychology as in Freud.
Ayon sa mga sites at forums na nagdi-discuss ng evolutionary psychology, iisa lang ang direction ng evolution. Ito ay ang pag-maximize ng chances sa survival. Ang lalaki ay pipili ng babae na makakapag-ensure ng survival ng kanyang offspring, at ang babae naman ay pipili ng lalake na makakapagbigay ng magandang genes.
Hindi na ako nagtataka kung bakit ang mga babae ngayon ay tumitingin agad sa CAR-acter at sa PESO-nality ng lalaki. Ito ay rooted sa mga ninuno natin na ang pinakamagaling na lalaki sa isang tribe ay ang pinakamaraming maiuuwing game mula sa hunting nila. Natural na sa babae ang maghanap ng isang "provider".
Gayun din na ang fixation ng lalaki sa malalaking boobs ay rooted daw sa idea na ang mga ito ay makakapagbigay ng "nourishment and sustenance". Kapag malaki ang boobs, mas malaki ang chances ng survival ng offspring. Ang pagtingin naman sa pwet ay natatagpuan din sa ating mga kapatid na primates, specifically ang mga chimpanzees, na kung saan pag "available for sex" ang isang babaeng chimp, inilalapit nya ang kanyang pwet sa head monkey para lamas-lamasin, kurut-kurutin, at amuy-amuyin. Pag nagustuhan ito ng alpha male monkey, doon sila magse-sex. Nakakatawa kung iisipin, pero ang pagtingin ko pala sa boobs at pwet ay bahagi lang ng aking nature as a male. Ika nga ng tatay ni Jim sa American Pie, "it's a perfectly natural thing". Kung totoo ito, bakit masama ang tumingin? Tingin lang naman e. Walang hawak, walang hipo. Tingin lang.
Siguro nga, kultura lang ang nagpabago ng perspective natin sa natural urge na ito. Dahil sa relihiyon, ang pagtingin sa katawan ng babae ay nilagyan ng label na "pagnanasa". Dahil sa media, ang mga artistang babae na maganda ang boobs at pwet ay tinatakan na "sex symbol" o "pantasya ng bayan". At dahil sa marketing, ang liposuction, breast enhancement, at kung anu-ano pang retoke sa katawan ay ginagawa "to enhance the self confidence of a woman". Ang mga revealing na bra, ang mga push-up bra, ang mga binebenta sa TV na breast creams, yung cycling shorts na nage-enhance ng butt cheeks, ay tinatatakan na "personality enhancement apparel/tools".
At shempre, ang mga lalaking katulad ko na tumitingin lang ay tinatatakan na "manyak".

---->DISCLAIMER:

HINDI SARILI KO ANG TINUTUKOY KO DITO.... THIS IS JUST A POSTULATED IDEA CARRIED ON BY AN IDLE MIND! Hehehehe...

DO NOT PUT ANY MALICE.... Just be OPEN-MINDED!!!!

- 심심하다!!! 지금은 심심해!!!

when you had enough...

Enough sometimes doesn't really mean enough. No matter how I tried to say "enough" for something, it just keeps on doing the rituals. It just keeps on repeating things I don't want to happen.

I am very disappointed at some point of my life when I thought that life is getting smooth for me but turned out it's really not. Never realizing the consequence of being too confident on the outcomes of the decisions in life, things repeat itself unwittingly.

Not many words can express what's inside you but sighs and more sighs. You start to question yourself, 'Why does it have to happen?' 'Why my family members, of which I am affected?' 'Why so sudden?'. I try to find answers. Try. Try. And more tries. Flipping your head upside down just in case some drop of wit and comprehension might fall.

Wasted in my desolation, I try to drown the thoughs in an intoxicating clouds trying to vie for a clear answer. Then ask myself again and again, as to 'Why?'. I am justifying my motions. Justifying my actions. Justifying everything and not realizing what I have done.

In one moment, I smiled. I did found a rationalization on my mountainous problem. 'Why do I have to suffer looking for answers for the things I am not directly involved?'. The smile soon faded. I have realized then that I loved and cared for this person.

I have once said 'Enough' but it happened again. It's not a simple slap-me-on-the-cheek-once-and-twice-I-will-slap-you-back thing. It's a matter of life and death.

I just wanted the best and nothing but the irrefutable best but it seems everything will be a waste. A waste that will last for a lifetime.

Devasted on the realization of the problem, I have nothing more left but to trust God. I can't spare any cent from my mind. I give up firing bullets to my brain looking for appropriate antidote. It's now time that I should rest. Rest it all to Someone that is more wise. Much more understandable. Much to say, an All-knowing God.

I have to rest now. I can't think. I can't imagine what life will become in a few hours...days...months... years...decades. I have no choice but lay it all to GOD.

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new hobby

I did not knew that I would enjoy fishing. At first kala ko, that is for pang-matatanda.
It's not the same as pro-sports fishing much more, not the same a ball-game. The thing that I enjoy when I fish is not the numbers of the caught. It's the time I get to relax my mind. When I look into the calm see and the wind is on the right breeze, I begin to unlock and release some thoughts. Very relaxing.


Catching 11 pieces of fish for about 5 hours is as feat for me (I usually caught 1 very small fish for 4 hours! Many times, i caught NOTHING!). My friend, Sean, has just caught 2 small fish which we decided to throw it back to the sea. After catching them we did a little drink and eat raw fish meat! YUMMY... an instant sushi!!!


I catched the fish and he prepare the food! I was lucky that night!!! hehehe His Dad was very supportive to us that he even went to the area just to bring in some drinking water and ramyeon! Go, go, GO Appa!!! Hehehe

Looking towards YOUR future

Vision. One important element in achieving something. Without this, you are like a runner who doesn't know his finish line. For me, without vision, life is stagnant.



One very famous line every child hears from older people is,"What do you want to become when you grow up?" Usually the answers would be are: (...survey says...)"I want to be a doctor"; "I want to be an engineer"; "I want to be a teacher". Very seldom (or very very rare..as in) you can hear a child say, "I want to be a performer!" >.< kasi, the life and vision of the children is based on what the adults wanted them to become. Adults put their vision to their children so as these young ones think that those are also their vision in life. And so, slowly we are blindfolding our children on their real vision.

Having a vison for yourself is very important. It will form your guide map to what you wanted to become. But one question I want to pose is, 'what kind of vision do you hold for your future?'

...are you the NEAR-SIGHTED visionary?

Are you the type of the person who only see the short path of achieving dreams? And what do I really mean by that? Simple, a no-sweat-reach-your-goal path!

I consider a near-sighted visionary those who:

• join reality star search contests like moonstruck, sun is circle quest, etc. to become famous even though even a hint doesn't have any talent to become.
• join reality star searches and looks to it that that is the only life on earth. If you dont become a winner on the contest, you are doomed to die.
• marrying a someone for their money (and even sex) just to satisfy their personal desire.
• marrying foreigners of great wealth just to escape the troubles in their own land.
• fall in line on a lottery store. Praying for an instant jackpot prize.
• Social-climbing. So as to be noticed by other people and then beguile them.
• Follow the career path of their parents so as they will not have difficulty.
• Dropping out of school thinking that it is much best to work than study at school.
• Taking up the easiest major degree or course just to say that you have finished a university degree.

...are you the FAR-SIGHTED visionary?

Or, are you the type of person that looks farther beyond the horizon?

I consider a far-sighted visionary those who:

• doesn't stop learning. Maybe not only in school but in life. Open their channels to wise advise of people, both older and younger than he is.
• see themselves as asset of their country or an entity. Eager to help his own roots.
• those who shine their light to bring hope for others.
• think to always make a difference in all he does.,
• those who listen to the counsel of both people--the good and the bad. Walking in the counsel of good and learning to find an antidote or counterstep and attack the counsel of the wicked.
• think NOT only about themselves but the majority.
• plan their lives. Have plans in 5 years, 10 years, 20 years in life. Though not fixed, they know clearly where they are headed to!
• are not feared by the challenges in life. He walks out of his shell and face the troubles like a victor.
• try to leave the crowd because everyone else is doing the same thing and tries to do something extraordinary things for the benefit of many.
• uses his God-given gifts (talents and gifts of the Holy Spirit) in trudging his mapped plan in life.
• rely onto GOD as his source of strength, wisdom, and talents.
• never patterns similar paths from their human examples but, rather excited to face his own destination.

So, what kind of vision do you hold for your future? Let us remember that it is us who can create our own vision in life. It's not passed on to us by our old people and even our parents. What vison do we hold now will say what life we'll be having in the future.

Summer picnic! whooohoooo!

Pictures, pictures and more pictures.
Summer Picnic time!!!




Heo In Yeong (Angela) and ME!!!


Fighting BULLS! hehehe


weary from the bullfight?!




The best of a picnic!!!! wooohoooo!!!


Girls....girls... and girl-alike! wahaha










PIG Monster!!!! FIGHTING!
















The Girlie-girls.... not ready to pose under the sun! hooots

I look better on a photo if I am on my back!!! hmmm.. dont you think so?

Sobak munchers!!!!