A Follow-up Date

This is a follow-up article on how to have a successful Second date.

So, last night's date was fun. You get along with her very smoothly and nicely and you wanted to have another time with her. The principle is very simple: If you get along very well, follow-it up the second time.

Note: for those who are SINGLES lang ha... 2-timers are excluded on my exposition! Pero kung pasaway talaga kayo sa buhay, bahala kayo sa buhay nyo!!!

To start-off, sure-fire ways would be:

1. Ask her out again at the end of your first date. You can also ask her implicitly like "Oh, I am having a good time with you now. I hope we could hang out soon...as in very soon. How's that sound? Cool? I will be so delighted to talk like this with you again..<*wink*>"

One thing about this advice is that, invite her for something different the next time you ask. If she tells you that she finds Indian foods really exciting, then tell her you know a very nice Indian restaurant in the metropolis and you would be delighted to bring her there next Friday night. Also, I would suggest that you should specify the date soon so that she will already know and give her less reasons to back out. As much as possible, don't let the women decide for a date. Based on experience, their dates are interchangeable!!!

If the lady likes heavy metal cum trash cum punk rock cum demonic music, tell her, you know a place where the demonics are having their "PAG-AALAY" session and you would be glad to bring her there and offer yourself as the "ALAY" too! ^^,

2. Text her or give her a call the VERY NEXT DAY. Text her that you had a great time with her last night and you are looking forward to see her again on Friday. Etc., etc. Huwag naman yung Missed-call-Style ang gagawin. It's an old-traders way. Laos na yun and it makes you sound cheapo!

3. I have read this one: DON'T agree with everything she says. Show off what you got! Brains, that is!!! Challenge her mind. Pwede mo rin syang hamunin ng suntukan... kung lady boxer ang dine-date mo. Challenge her. If you always agree on what she says, that will show that you are weak. That is minus "pogi" points from you. This will likely to become your turning point of having another date with her. This doesn't mean being confrontational or being arrogant in a way that you always contradict what she says. That is also a NO-NO! What I just mean is be real, honest and sensible. When you have to agree with her, then agree. When you think you have a different opinion, say it politely and nicely. Maybe soon, you'll have a fruitful and nice conversation--exchanging thoughts.

4. Learn to polish your LISTENing skill. In Tagalog, "Matutong makinig sa kausap. Hindi puro ikaw ang daldal ng daldal." Have a 2-way communication. Open all channels. Men tends to impress their ladies by bragging their asses! Some men try to show off too much of their accomplishments. I believe most women wants something on the man's inside than just blabbing mouths! I think, its right naman that, the less you brag, the more interested she will be.

5. Don't open some previous chapters in your life. What I mean on this is you may had previous relationships before and its better not to open the details of everything. She may ask how many girlfriends you had, then it's ok to answer. But your ex-GF's favorite colored-panty, etc.. it's a NO-NO-NO. Remember this is just a date... a getting-to-know-you stage for both of you. Just both of you.

6. Be positive and fun. In connection with #5, Don't talk about your EX's. Don't complain about life or complain about the government. Don't complain to your date about the work you are doing in the office and how your boss treats you. Don't even complain everything that is wrong in your life. Remember that your date is not MIKE ENRIQUEZ or MON TULFO who can expose all the complaints in the world!!! Talk about good things and happy moments. Share some laugh lines or joke. Huwag naman yung dirty or bathroom jokes.

7. Don't look at another woman. Men, beware of this. You are on a date and not woman-hunting with your friends. Remember that your focus should be on your date and that will be a good point to show your date that you value the time you are with them.

8. Compliment her. Well, I have said about this in the previous article. But, like I've said, don't overdo it. If you always compliment her every 30 mins., you are giving the lady an idea that you have never dated a beautiful lady like her before and doing that, makes you lose your charisma and another "pogi" points.

In addition to these, you should also compliment her mind. You should bond with her mentally, emotionally and physically (some holding hands will do or shoulder caress (himas-himas ^^,)).

9. DON'T EXPECT sex or force the issue of sex. Take everything slow and orderly. This is just a date. Get yourselves known to each other. A date is different from a one-night-stand. And if you are just in the right mind, you will never force sex in the topic of dating. Remember that sexual purity is one of the important factors in ensuring good moral values.

10. Once you have secured a second date and it turned out successful, you may need to set-up an "activity date". Going to the beach, or park like Luneta, or QC Circle. Mag-bike sa PICC. Mag-picnic sa Parks and Wildlife. Syempre pag day-off nyo at magpaalam ng maayos kina SER at MAM. Oki ba inDay at Dudong? ^^,

You may opt to do simple things as well. I consider a date with a lady when you ask her if you can walk your dogs together, or jog in the morning, or help her clean the car. If your lady has some charitable deed during weekends, then join her. Lalo na if si Rosa Rosal ang dine-date mo! ^^,

Simple ways, yet sure-fire hits!

Dates should be creative and not boring! Dating doesn't mean always eating dinner and watching porno movies *este* cinema movies, or malling. Be creative.

I hope everyone'll have a great time in dating their partners!